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Secular Humanism Says:
Intolerant attitudes, often cultivated by orthodox religions and puritanical cultures, unduly repress sexual conduct. The right to birth control, abortion and divorce should be recognized.

We need to be tolerant: Isn't it true we need to tolerate other people's sexual attitudes and actions? For example, who are we to tell someone that homosexual behavior is wrong? Isn't it true that what someone does in their own home, as long as they are not hurting someone, is not our business?

If you believe that moral values derive from our own experience, then the above statement makes perfect sense. If there are no absolute moral values, if moral values are based on our human experience (meaning a society's moral values are whatever that society agrees on as a moral value), then we must tolerate other's behaviors because what they are doing is morally correct based on their experience.

Think about it. Doesn't this scare you? Whatever the majority thinks is right or wrong, becomes what is what is morally right or wrong at that time. That value becomes the moral standard. This means that cultures that practice cannibalism are doing nothing wrong. The people in that culture have agreed that their behavior is moral and acceptable. This means Hitler did nothing wrong. This means that there was nothing wrong with the slave culture 200 years ago in the American south. You can not say any of this was wrong, because then you are applying your moral values. You are being intolerant of other people's values.

Think about it. How can you be sure what is morally right or wrong? Over the years things will change. What was morally wrong when you were young, is acceptable when you become older. Something that was acceptable for you to do when you were young, is no longer acceptable 30 years later. That's what has happened in America. People who grew up in the 40's and 50's have different moral values than those raised in the 70's and 80's.

If moral values are based on what the current society agrees are correct moral values, then moral values change during our lifetime. What we learned from our experiences and from our parents, is no longer valid when we grow older.

But you say, the situation has changed. We live in a new world. We need to have updated values and morals that are appropriate for the world we now live in.

How dare you say this! You are being intolerant of another person's life. The moral values a person has have developed throughout their life are who that person is. You are treating that person as worthless because you are intolerant of their values!

Do you see the problem?

No matter how "tolerant" you try to be, there will be some behavior -- some thoughts, some beliefs -- which based on the moral values you have defined for yourself, you can not tolerate.

Perfect tolerance is anarchy. An anarchy is something we can not tolerate and accept, because then we no longer have a civilized society.

God has solved all of these problems. God created us -- our body, mind and soul. He knows everything about us. He has established moral values that are unchanging, for all people, for all time. Two of those values are that we are to love one another and we are to hate sin.

Loving another person does not mean we tolerate everything they do. We can love a person, but hate their sinful behavior. A person's behavior is not that person.

To love another person means to want the best for that person. To hate a person's sinful actions is to want the best for that person.

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